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writes:my boyfriend told me that he wants our relationship secret because i am not style and because its not the right time yet, he said it is ok to show it and let other people know our relationship when he already retire in managing his own company....i dont know what he means but it really hurts me... Reply to this Question
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reader, Dawnie  +, writes (19 April 2008):
 Is he married? or in a long term relationship as i can't think why else he would want to keep you secret. If not, what is his problem?. From what you have said i think you would be better off without this guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): He's hiding something from you and from someone else. Drop this dude and move on to greener pasture and better days.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): don't mean to sound blunt but usally when men say this they are married or have another girlfriend or they just want to sleep with you and not a relationship. You deserve better tell him if he dose not want to let people know about your relationship that your leaving. If a man loves you he would want the hole world to know.You are so much better than this don't take that crap! Talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he still wants to hide your relationship than tell him TO THE LEFT! and bug off! Goodluck girl and thier is other fish out thier. Tell him as long as you have a yoohoo you can get all the ding dongs you want!
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (19 April 2008):
 There is no telling why, but you need to leave him. It may be that he is trying to see other women, maybe there is something about you he is embarrassed about- I really doubt that is it unless he is a total prick. It hurts you so you are unhappy. It is a terrible thing to say, asking you to keep the relationship a secret. Let him know how much it bothers you and that you don't understand why exactly it needs to be a secret. If he won't listen or give a good reason why (I don't know of any good reasons...) you should let him go and find someone who appreciates you and enjoys showing you off to friends and everyone else, not someone who wants it to be secret. Good luck. Also, what does "not style" mean?
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