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writes:My boyfriend wants me to give him a blowjob and I'm more then happy to but I have no clue what I'm suppose to do... tips/help please and do guys like to finish on their girls? or in privacy
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Okay, first of all, there is no "blowing" in a blow job, as previously suggested. Perhaps a little blowing on the tip might be interesting, but for the most part, a good blow job primarily involves sucking. Here are some suggestions from a man's point of view as the receiver:
Perhaps the best and easiest position the first time would be with the man prone on the bed. This would allow you to approach his erection from a variety of angles, with the most comfortable perhaps being from the side. However, a better position is kneeling between his parted legs. This position also works very well with the man seated but leaning back,
In either case, begin by slowly licking his penis, whether erect or not, from the base to the tip. With the between-the-legs position, you may also easily access his scrotum for licking. Continue licking base-to-tip repeatedly while also grasping around the base at times. You should alternate the licking with occasional strokes with your hand. Allow your saliva to liberally wet his shaft.
Following a moment of this activity, begin to concentrate more on the tip (glans), by licking around the ridge that encircles the head, much as you would enjoy a tasty ice cream scoop. Use your hand to hold the shaft erect to kiss, lick and suck on the tip. Gradually begin to suck and apply wet kisses to the very tip of the penis and allow just the head into your mouth occasionally with a strong suck and kiss. Continue holding the shaft around the base, but begin adding strokes while you continue playing with the tip of the erection with your lips and tongue.
When you are comfortable, and he is no doubt fully erect by then, you begin to insert deeper and deeper into your mouth while gently sucking, as if on a pop sickle. Move your head as necessary to continue thrusting his erection gently into your mouth, in and out, in and out. Accompany the motions with strokes on the shaft with your hand(s). Occasionally, go back to licking, kissing and sucking just on the tip for several seconds, then again plunge it deeper into your mouth.
There are variations on this basic method, including different positions and advanced techniques such as deep-throating, but this is a good start. At some point, perhaps sooner than later, the man will approach orgasm. You may notice that his erection becomes bigger and harder, the tip may swell and turn redder, and of course, his breathing and thrusting will quicken. You will need to decide whether to allow ejaculation into your mouth, or stroke him to climax with your hand(s). In either case, do not stop. If you finish with the hand job, be very gentle after he has ejaculated. The head of the penis will be extremely sensitive.
If you prefer take the sperm in your mouth, you can swallow or later spit it out, but again, continue sucking through the finish. The fluid will likely taste fairly bitter, similar to powdered aspirin or lemon juice. Or it will possibly taste fairly salty. If he consumes a good amount of fruit and fruit juice (notably pineapple and cherries) the day and hours before, the sperm reportedly tastes sweeter. Providing he is healthy and disease-free, the ejaculate is harmless and reportedly even healthful, largely containing proteins, minerals, vitamins, sugars and salt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): Practice makes perfect. He'll tell you what he likes and doesn't like, and you'll also know you're doing well if he is rock hard in your mouth. As far as I'm aware of, most guys do like to finish in their girl's mouth. If you are concerned about this, have him let you know when he is about to come, so that you are ready for it. You don't have to swallow, but it's probably a huge turn-on to him if you do. Good luck!
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reader, Teacake +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Funny you wonder about this because I recently got an ebook about all the ways to do that. If you are interested in that and don't mind sending 5 dollars with paypal, I can send it to you. There are no pictures, just a lot of written techniques. I think there are either 40 or 60 pages. You could ask him which sounds best or just try each technique one at a time. Men love anything that way.
I also have an ebook for men if he wants to have that for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): Different guys have different personal preferences. The key to a good sex life is communication - so you know if you're doing well, and if not then how you could improve to give your partner/for them to give you maximum pleasure. Just start off licking, sucking, blowing, but ask him which he likes best and get him to tell you what feels good and what doesn't. Communication really is the best - it worked for me, I used to be rubbish (especially at handjobs) but now apparently I'm not bad at all!!!
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