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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend gets very angry at me for no reason he dislikes me to talk with friends sometimes even family. He makes me get his cell phone and makes me do everything he treats me like a personal assistant. he has a soft side though were he will do things for me and compliment me. Sometimes he gets really angry at me he expects me to know and do everything for example when i dont know my way he expects me to look up directions and know exactly how to get there. as well he still keeps a photo of he and his ex on his screensaver we have been together for almost a year now. he still keeps it up and I have told him I dislike it but he keeps it up. He always accuses me of things and makes me look bad in front of other people.what should I do?
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (26 December 2010):
 hi
he sounds like an emotional bully. the picture of the ex as his screen saver is just plain cruel, given that you have told him you dont like it and he keeps it there anyway. do yourself a favour and google 'narccisistic personality disorder' because i think he falls into this catergory. this man will grind you down the longer this behavior goes on and you do not need to tolerate this. i am not a believer in trying to change people or waiting til they decide to change, i think if someone is wrong for you, let them be and go find someone else more suitable but thats just my opinion. what i do believe though is that if this guy can get away with treating you this way and ordering you about then he will be happy to carry on.
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