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writes:My boyfriend and I have been best buds since Nov 2003 and we've been in a serious relationship since Nov 2005. At first it was great, I couldn't have asked for a better relationship but now, it seems as if nothing I do or say matters to him at its all about him. I've been slightly emotional but got on new meds and feel 110% better. However my boyfriend still thinks that I'm crazy and everything is my fault. I don't want to break up with him because I love him but what should I do if he doesn't seem to appreciate the things I do or even seem interested in what I have to say? Please Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): My man is like that also. He is never responsible for his own actions. If he's an ass to me, it's always my fault. If he gets drunk and has a hangover the next day, that's my fault too. I'm never allowed to be pissed, angry or hurt. If I am any of those things he will turn it around to be about how bad I treated him, how I started it, how HE'S pissed now, etc...etc. I stay because I love him, but I think strength always comes our way eventually. It does suck that we can't just be smart enough to walk away instead of put up with the abuse. Love is prison-like at times, I think. It shouldn't be that way. I hope things get better for me because any more I spend every day just feeling like I'm waiting for the end. Good luck to you....may you find the strength to do what's best for YOU. :)
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 April 2007):
 Why don't you want to break up with a guy that treats you so poorly? How can you love a guy like that? I'd show him the curb.
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