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writes: I`m in an relationship with my boyfriend. Who goes online and wants to talk to women from his past. I`m really bothered by this, But he thinks there is nothing wrong with it. He says it`s all about trust. I`m not allowed to show him affection around his 2 kids and the only time i get with him is at bed time. He says i`m smothering him.What do i do? He says he loves me but makes me feel like i`m around till he finds something better. We have been having problems because he tells everyone he is single. He`s making it seem to me that i accept it, it`s his way or the high way. please tell me if this is normal? and what i should do. Does it sound like he`s looking for more to you? Reply to this Question
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (22 January 2006):
 Oh My God!
I am in no way a man-hater, but sack him. You deserve better and he has already declared himself single to all intents and purposes. Why sit around waiting for him to dunp you? Do you want to be a victim? You need to get in there first and keep your self-esteem intact before he crumples it underfoot like a old bit of rag. He IS using you till something better comes along. Go with your instincts girl, you know he is bad for you otherwise you wouldn't have written this letter.
Good Luck and move on with your future.....x
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reader, roxysuperx +, writes (21 January 2006):
 Get rid of him girl. I am not a man basher at all but if he wants to have it "his way or the highway" that just shows he is incapable of compromise and without that, how are two people supposed to carry on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2006): There's only one thing I'm gonna say...this guy does not respect, cherish...or dare I say...even love you. From my experience, I say, dump any guy who feels the personal need to establish "rules" in a dating relationship. (Outside of establishing healthy boundaries, of course) Who made him God! And this whole "his way, or the highway thing" really ticks me off. Relationship is about equal give and take...not you give, he takes. Please believe me...this is not normal. A normal, loving boyfriend wouldn't want to talk with past women, he would love your affection, and he would want to broadcast to the world the fact that he is with the most wonderful woman in the world! Please...think carefully on this one!
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