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writes:Well ive been with my boyfreind for a year.. And he loves me very much and i love him to. He buys me everything i want but my boyfriend thinks its all about thingz he thinks that if he buys me things i'll stay happy but no... I need his love too.. his always leaving me out for his friends, family and is always going on abouthiis neice how cute she is an how much he loves her and all that i really need advice on what to do because whenever i think about all this ii harm myself, cry, an cry myself to sleep. Reply to this Question
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (20 July 2008):
 I apologize for the message before. I got kind of confused :/
I know it's cliched, but love does conquer all.
Good luck and I hope you have prosperity in your relationship with your boyfriend!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnah ii relii needed advice.. Bcuz i alwayz felt like leavig him buh then agen i luve him alot so i cudnt.
Buh now tht ii gt advice ill try it n see wer it tkes me
thnx =]
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (20 July 2008):
Did you want an advise or just someone to agree with you?
Remember that there's more wisdom in acting selfless than in thinking only about yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionExactlii thts hw my life is to.. that anonymous female knows what im going thru and i just hate it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008): I totally understand what you are talking about. Have the same thing here. Whenever he talks about his niece, the expression, the tone, everything, just makes me want to leave him. It's like she definitely is the most important thing in his life. And I don't think it's natural for a girl loves her uncle much more than her own father. I have my family too. It's just I would never talk about my nephew like that.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (13 July 2008):
Well, have you tried to tell him this? Most people cannot read minds and some people are clueless when some people try to imply something (I find myself guilty here).
Why don't you try to make a nice conversation with him and tell him how you feel. I even think crying would be a nice touch, but not drama. Talk to him calmly and nicely and tell him how you feel. I'm pretty sure that if he's a nice guy, he'll understand and act upon it.
Now, the only thing that alarmed me is that you harm yourself. Well, here's one thing I'll tell you: STOP. Every time I hear some kid says that they harm themselves I always think they want attention. Now this may not be your case, but it's still a really bad thing to do. I don't think your family, friends, and even your boyfriend would not like it that you harm yourself and if they do, they don't care about you. Please stop this because it's an unattractive trait from a sweet girl like you.
So the thing left is to talk to him. Tell him everything, and don't be afraind or feel embarrased. This is affecting you and he needs to know and he'll never will if you don't tell him.
Go ahead and do it. And good luck and I hope your guy understands you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2008): its natural for any uncle to talk about how much he loves his niece. you shouldn't be jealous of that. it's his family. he is just proud of her. maybe you should just sit him down and tell him how the material things dont mean as much to you as the physical things and that if he wants to continue a relationship with you then he needs to start showing you some love in other ways.
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