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writes: I have been seeing this guy for 2 years now and for the past few months he has shown no interest in having sex. when i confront him about it he states that he thinks its due to stress at work. we havent had sex for 2 months and i pracically beg him for it. i try telling him how insecure and unattractive it makes me feel but he wont even make an effort to pleasure me orally. i want him to want me again but i dont know what to do, help!
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reader, licallion  +, writes (3 June 2012):
it's important to listen to him aswell as yourself. Sometimes people can get very paranoid in a relationship, i know because i've been searching myself for the answers to this very question. but maybe it is what he says, stress.and if so why not try and de-stress him by giving him a massasge..? it relaxes him and also you might even find that it will turn him on because massasges can be very sensual. A back massasge, or even better a foot and leg massasage as its right close to his groin area, he won't be able to resist.If he falls asleep during the massasge don't feel bad, it just means he was THAT relaxed he fell asleep but in the morning he will appreciate it and you will see his moods picking upHope this helps, if not ask more question I'll try my best and helplisa
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reader, Lynnsie +, writes (1 May 2006):
Talk to him, it will change if he really loves you, but if not, leave him!
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