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writes:i have a problem with my boyfriend ,, been dating for 3 years, the problem is that he says that i'm a controlling selfish girlfriend, because i asked op talkin to a friend whom we once broke of because , and also that friend of his keeps treating me in a bad way and always talking bad to my boyfriend about me , my boyfriend tells me that he doesn't have that much of friends , but am i obligated to get humilated and treated with disrespect from his friend just because he doesn't have that many , my real big problem is that i believe i shouldn't but no matter how hard i try staying away from my boyfriend or breaking up with him for some reason i end up with him in bed ,,,,and i don't know how to deal with my feelings ,,, so help..... Reply to this Question
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reader, lalanay1 +, writes (26 July 2009):
Speak to him about it, calm, and collected. Don't shout, cook him a meal or something, and then broach the subject with him. If he isnt prepared to listen, and won't be reasoned with, I'm sorry, but he's not the man for you. Hope this helps.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (26 July 2009):
 You shouldn't stop your boyfriend seeing anyone...He should stick up for you if this person is badmouthing you though.
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