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writes: I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we've been having sex for 4. We're both 18. I've never noticed anything wrong, but he told me last night he doesn't always cum during sex. He's been faking cumming when I give him a blow job. I've always wondered why he pulls away. He told me he knows he can because he's had wet dreams and also cums a little bit during sex, but it's never loads. Can anybody please tell me what's wrong? He said it's not just me and that it's his past girlfriends too that he's had the same problem with. Could it be something to do with him pulling his foreskin right up? Cos isn't the tip the part that's is most sensitive during sex? Please help as I was a virgin when I met him so I have no other experience of sex! Thank you :) xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2006): hi, i'm just guessing but i reckon this is all in the mind, tell ya man to chill, kick back and be brutally honest about whats good and whats not, i think this is often one of the biggest problems, maybe he's not actually being honest, as for the foreskin thing, unless its so tight that he needs medical attention then i cant see it being a factor, its all in the mind, when my woman gives me oral sex i dont care or know what my foreskin is doing but i 'm gaurenteed to blow every time!
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reader, sugar29 +, writes (28 June 2006):
sugar29 is verified as being by the original poster of the question no not really unless he's around me. i'll let you know if we find out what's happening :) thanks for the help anyways! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2006): Does he masturbate a lot? If he does, that desensitizes his penis.
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reader, sugar29 +, writes (27 June 2006):
sugar29 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok heres an update.. me n my bf now think he doesnt cum because he pulls his foreskin up so it covers the head. the head is the sensitive part isnt it? soo surely he should be pulling his foreskin back so the sensitive part is revealing? it just makes him flinch when he does it. is it normal for it to be that sensitive and is this the reason why he doesnt cum? please help thankss :) xxx
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reader, sugar29 +, writes (27 June 2006):
sugar29 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know what he likes n he knows what i likes, were so comfortable with each other already and sex is fun for us.i just think somethings going wrong if he doesn't come. i know how to give head. he says it feels good. i think its a problem with him having his foreskin too far up during sex so im nto reaching the sensitive part. do you think this could be it? x
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (27 June 2006):
 It all comes with experience, perhaps also you can look up on google - just type in "tips on oral sex" - there is a wealth of info out there! Ask your boyfriend to have a look with you. Get him to tell you what makes him feel horny, and tell him to let you know how much he enjoys it when you touch him 'there', or do 'this' wherever - you can both do this for each other, it can bring you both so close if you feel comfortable with doing this. Take your time, relax and have a giggle together about it - it is supposed to be fun, remember! ;)
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