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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I just dont get this! Why is it like this? My mates a lad, hes 19...hes a really nice guy. But its weird, he says im a great friend to him and stuff but theres one little thing thats getting me down that i cant ask him about. Hes had a habbit like some lads of not alwyas texting back and replying to stuff. Facebook mainly. Now it wasnt just me he did this to people would just write stuff like hey how r ya n stuff and he wouldnt reply....Typical teenager i suppose!But this is the thing recently if anyones commented his statuses hes always replied 95% of the time. Even if its just with something like "lol" or "haha" or something...yet wen i comment it....nothing!! And some of them have just been jokes, which as i said with others he will reply to and some may have been a question. If someone else asked the same question as me as well he would reply..i dont understand. Ive got this stupid idea in my head its because that if he replied people could see he was talking to me. (people at college never really liked us being friends and used to say stuff to him) - then again he was also very different with me when talking to me away from college and stuff but seriously. Its only facebook! Whats the problem....I cant ask him about this so could you please just give me some options of what it could be and then i can decide how to deal with it better. And please dont say do you wanna be friends with someone like this because everyone says that but i do...if only stupi little things like this didnt happen he'd be one of my best friends!
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reader, starfairy +, writes (26 July 2009):
 It sounds like you're looking into it too much...You're the one he most likely see's the most, speaks to the most, why does he need to reply to each and every of your Facebook messages etc?
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