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My boyfriend needs a break from our relationship, how do I get through this?

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Question - (6 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend of 8 months just recently told me that he needed a break from the relationship because my friends were putting to much pressure on him. He told me that he honestly does love me and that he just needs some time to get everything ok again, but the part that is killing me is that i love him so much and i know he feels the same. I just cant deal with the thought of a break from him how do i get through the break until everything is ok again?

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A female reader, Ana123 United States +, writes (21 August 2009):

Hey girl im going through the same thing right now we have been together for 16 months and he is doing this too me i understand completely where you coming from on how hard this is. the only thing you can do is give him the time and space he wants if he love you like he says he does he'll come bac no worries but in the mean time for you need to spend time with friends go out do things that you want to do keep yourself entertained.... GOD i know it hurts another thing you can do if he wants no communication is write in a book how your day when and write as you are talking to him that is what i have been doing..take care!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009):

Me no understand. What pressure? He could be looking for an excuse to cool it. Sounds a pretty lame excuse to me though. Maybe he's trying to lower you gently.

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