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writes:I am a young guy and i have a beautiful girlfriend whom i love. We have been together 3 years and plan on getting married. She is 22 and currently doing some work abroad as part of her career. She has been gone 3 months now and I'm starting to get the feeling she is cheating on me with her boss whom she went with.He is much much older than her and i know it is ridiculous to think that she might like him but i have reason to be suspicious. She says she is often up late with him working, they are staying in the same apartment, just the two of them and she has mentioned that he is buying her inappropriate gifts such as lingerie. She plays it down and tells me i'm stupid to think that cause he's in his 60's but i'm not sure. We have had video calls to each other and i've seen him walking around in a bedrobe. It is night time but really why is he walking around in a bedrobe? That's indecent. She will be away for another 2 months and i'm worried i will become a cuckold. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, jarradk +, writes (1 September 2009):
jarradk is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell thank you for your advice. To anonymous, I took your advice and confronted her. Firstly i just asked her many more question which led me to discover that she is very much enjoying his lifestyle. He buys her dinner and presents all the time, gives her massages and roses, he has given her emotional comfort about her sick father by letting her fall asleep crying on his lap. But he is old enough to be her father!!! So then i confronted her and she told me that he is also a better lover than me so you were right. I really cannot compete. This older man is taking very good care of my girlfriend and despite his age, or because of it, he knows how to please her and she is loving it. I guess I'll see what to do when she gets back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): i think you should pot this again, to get more responses.but yes, seems like she is cheating on you. and don't let her make you think otherwise. you just cannot compete with this older man - he has the bucks, lifestyle that the young girl will love, she doesn't have to pay for anything. check how much she is earning he would also make her life comfortable. all the sings are there. what are you going to do about it? he may be in his 60's, but he knows what he wants and seems like he already has it. don't let her make you a fool. you may be young but certainly not naive , she is doing her boss. make no mistake of it. you need to confront her and not be the foolish bf just believing her every word.sorry. hope you work out what you really want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): I don't blame you for being suspicious about this. But you are just going to have to trust her unless you have hard evidence that proves her guilt.Without trust, you might as well not even be in a relationship.Flynn 24
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