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writes:Im at a dead end, and am so confused on what to do. Im pregnant and am living with my boyfriend who is the father. We both want the baby. The thing is he is being so nasty towards me, he will call me names make me feel like trash and overreacts over stupid things. Its making me think that if he is disrespecting me he will act the same with our child. Most of all he loves mind games he puts me down and calls me a pathetic b!tch when i start crying if what he says hurts me, then he will start the "oh baby i love u im sorry come here" crap. I love him so much and i want our child to grow up with his/her father. But at the moment i just want to take off. Im so down, what should i do
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reader, mightaphodite  +, writes (8 December 2008):
Seek support from your friends and family and get out right now. It can only get worse. Abuse has many forms, don't be fooled by his kind words and appologies. You must protect yourself and your child. I wish you all the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): It is sad to hear that you are in that kind of situation. It would be nice if you could get along with the father of your baby. Yet, it is obvious he is abusing you, he does not respect you. You are right, your child should not see that kind of abuse- he/she might grow up thinking abuse is okey. ABUSE IS NEVER OK. The best thing is to find a safe solution and if you need to-GET OUT ASAP.
There's a good article by DR. Carver:
http://www.drjoecarver.com/clients/49355/File/IdentifyingLosers.html
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