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writes:My boyfriend is very romantic and seductive. He makes me feel so hot, but once we kiss he always wants to french right away and as soon as my lips part he jams his tongue down my throat so hard it chokes and gags me, and even makes my throat hurt later on. I can't even get my tongue into his mouth most of the time. What can say/do that will get this to change? Reply to this Question
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (2 September 2009):
 Sit him down and TELL him exactly what you have told us.
Guys need to be told what to do, with kindness, and told IMMEDIATELY WHEN they do something that is hurting you.
If he ignores this little talk, ignores you when you have told him "That Hurts, Stop it!", and he continues to only do what ever makes HIM feel good and still kisses with such force in the future, then he is being a bully sexually, and that is tantamount to being abusive. Don't allow anyone to treat you in a way that you do not wish to be treated. XXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): Why don't you just tell him what you're telling us. It's that simple.
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reader, AgonyAuntBlondiee  +, writes (2 September 2009):
 You could try saying to him 'lets try it this way' and start of very gently guiding him. And then encourage him to do it the way you like it for example say "it feels really good when you do it gently so i can get in your mouth too, i like it like that". This may be easier than telling him point blank to change his ways! Good luck!
Hope this helps :)
AgonyAuntBlondiee x
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