A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi my 9 months boyfriend, which I have strong feelings for, is a little bit inconsistent. he is always very busy, and I have confirm that he is going to college and work 2 jobs. he makes time for me, we see each other 3 times a week, the problem is that when we don't see each other sometimes he spend like 2 days with out making contact with me, but he always return my calls or messages. Other times he just call me, texted me, email me and come to see me, all the same day, some weeks he call me and texted me everyday, other weeks he can be 2 days without talking to me, I know that he is always very busy, I know he is not out partying or in bars. He is normally working at home (he works from home as myself), we have shared that we both have strong feelings for each other. This is the first serious relationship that he has, he is a very shy and quiet guy. Is this behavior normal? Can someone gives me any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): Sounds like he just sometimes needs a bit of time to himself.
I'm starting to think, reading these problems, that the women are always the ones doing the texting and stuff. Seems we need them more than they need us!! Only joking.
I know it's an old cliche, but I think that if he's seeing you 3 times a week, it's a case of do you love me, well I'm here aren't I. There's a lot to be said for that.
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