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writes: My boy friend and I are both 21 years old, and we have been together for 3 years. He has a major obsession with huge breasted womem, (while I am just a B-cup). All of the porno he watches contains girls that I could never compare to, and I have a big problem with that. He threw away all of his porn (magazines, movies, etc.)but now only 3 weeks later, I find out he's buying more and hiding it from me. It's been an on-going battle and I'm contemplating breaking up with him because of it. What should I do and how do I cope?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008): I think if he loves you he should love everything about you. A Girl i have dated for 3 years is a C cup only a cup bigger than you and hey, i like em the way they are. you should try to talk to him and figure out his obsession with big boobs. I dont like em really big, they hurt girls backs, they are nothin but a problem really. they get in the way shallow guys stare at them instead of your eyes, you know the normal crap. And hey if he is obsessed with big knockers and wont stop, guess what you should probably consider breakin it off, and find a guy who appreciates all of you including your natural Bs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2007): What the women have suggested thus far is really unhealthy. Don't try to compete with him and don't try to make him feel bad. Those are the first steps to ending a relationship.
If you're uncomfortable with what this guy is doing, just talk to him about it and try to figure out why he's so interested in other women when he should be interested in ONLY you. Take his porn and don't let him buy more; it's a bad habit anyway.
Unfortunately, if he's this obsessed with porn so early in a relationship, it's probably not going to get any better and you might consider breaking it off before there's no turning back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2006): I'm a girl who's a 36F I'm quite short too. So guess what men see first, yes my boobs. The thing is, men only see my boobs and are never interested in my personality. I can't seem to have a proper relationship because men are conditioned to view me as a sexual plaything and not a person. The things I've been called in the street and the ribbing I've had off my work colleagues.I'm seriously considering having a reduction! So let your guy ogle the boobs, because at least you're getting a relationship and he doesn't view you as a piece on meat to get off on.
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (25 September 2006):
 Well don't break up yet....he's got a thing for boobs...so what...maybe his mommy didn't breast feed him long enough or maybe she did it toooooo long. I have a suggestion that will teach him a lesson....but you have to be willing to pull it off. You are insecure that you must compete with the 99 DDDDDDDDDD....think about it...all men are worried about their penis size unless they are huge....and then they worry because it pops out of the top of their pants at inappropriate moments....If he's a biggie...pretend to obsess about little guys...call them Normal size men.....hehe....or if he's a Uh-hem Normal size...act like all Long Dongs are just the most amazing thing...and call them Normal size men. If he balks mention his engorged boobed women and if you have to feel inadequate....He should experience the sensation as well. After all....Whats good for the Goose.....
Oh the other thing. You could always play along and stuff your special DDD bra beyond belief and expect him to be seen with you like that.....reality sometimes bites...hehe.
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