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How do I tell my man that I want to be with him? I am scared of pushing him away

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Question - (25 September 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 September 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

i am currently involved with a man who has been separated from his wife for close to three years (living in two different countries now)i really like this guy and would really like to be in a permanent relationship with him, just how do i go about letting him know that i want to be with him without pushing him away. i am 26 and i really want to settle down with someone or rather him. what are my chances of being with him if at all or should i look for someone else coz i really don't want to start all over again

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A female reader, kayjay +, writes (26 September 2006):

kayjay agony auntare u like me and scared to tell him cause u are worried what the answer will be. maybe he wants the same thing. maybe he doesnt. but dont waste months or years leaving it as it is. write him a letter. that way u can say what u want with out being interupted or tongue tied. if its not what he wants then u can move on. u will hate urself for wasting so much time no matter what way it goes. good luck.

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (26 September 2006):

Toria agony auntIf it's him you want then no reason to stop you just going for it, if it pushes him away then surely that's a good enough sign to show you that you need to move on and find the right one.

If your scared of saying something why don't you try having one of those what do you want from life etc chats with him, ask him what he thinks of you and where he sees you and him heading and go from there.

Good luck :o)

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