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writes:i really need help with my bf we have been together for a long time he is an absolutely amazing person but in bed he sucks and he also isn't really open about things the only plus is that he loves to give oral but that's not cutting it anymore. i try to talk to him and he gets defensive or really upset it bothers him it's not that he's selfish it's he just doesn't last long. nor can he ever get me off we have been together for 2 plus years and its happened less then 10 times. How can he be helped to improve?i get mad at him sometimes and i can't help it, it's just really frustrating i try to tell him to do different things different position's or let me do something but he is always to dominant and tries too hard we skip foreplay because with it sex is like 5 minutes.it's really starting to get the both of us and it's been about 3 months sense the last time. im not interested in having sex with him anymore
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reader, Regha  +, writes (2 April 2011):
i assure you that, if you apply right tricks he will just be obeying you. seduce him so that he will be in a condition that he cann't deny you. always speak your heart to him. get things that u need.
you can ensure that he gets his necessity. from your side don't feel any shame. and if he has any shame, help him overcome it.
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reader, honestman  +, writes (2 April 2011):
"he is always to dominant and tries too hard we skip foreplay because with it sex is like 5 minutes."Listen. You got to tell him, clearly, not to rush things up. He needs to please you, with his mouth and his fingers. He needs to enjoy you, and get you relaxed. You both need to be patient. Make foreplay CORE play. Don't pressure yourselves to make you orgasm. Just spend caring and loving time, and let him delight you with a long oral. If you orgasm, feel satisfied, or need his penis inside you, tell him it is time to come in and to his job. It doesn't mater if he last 1 minute. You have already been pleased, and I bet your man has been delighted by pleasing you.If you want to rekindle the flame in this very moment, just go where he is , in front of the TV or computer. Crawl in the floor as if you are looking for something. Then slowly caress above his penis. Tease him, make him expect something more every second. Give him an oral, then, tease him more. Get naked, and keep giving him oral and tease him. If he wants to penetrate you, stop him. Tell him he needs to buy his ticket to enter the show. He has to pay you with a very long, slow, and passionate oral, or else he won't be able to come inside. I hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011): Draw the line - get better at sex, or no sex! Teach him what to do... instructions work great! Tell him, show him and make him get it right before he advances.If he can't deliver, move on...
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