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writes:I don't know what's wrong with me lately.My bf's planning to leave the country for 6 months. I wasn't happy at first that he's leaving. Then I changed my mind and think it's a good idea for him to have this experience to grow as a person. It's about a month away now, and I'm feeling so depressed and so cranky. Everytime my boyfriend doesn't call me (he usually calls me everyday), I get really depressed, worry and cranky. My bf doesn't know I'm feeling this way as we are in a distant relationship and I don't want to make myself a demanding gf. However, I get so cranky that I start getting mad at my bestfriend when he never did anything to me.I have talked to my bf about my mild depression last weekend (using my diet as a guess of why it is). He was the one who first suggested maybe it's the stress of him leaving. The depression/crankiness is getting worst everyday. I'm actually sometimes mad at him for not doing what I have in mind. I'm starting to think he doesn't want me anymore. Also thinking that he's off to Europe so he can have some private time without me around. I know my bf loves me very much and will come back after six months. But my paranoia is making me mad at myself too.Constantly, I feel mad, cranky, depressed, decrease appetite, and all the rest. It's starting to worry me. Can anyone suggest anything that can help me?
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reader, Toria +, writes (22 September 2006):
 Well firstly I'm sure the reason he isn't calling you as much is probably because his trip is a month away and he has got alot to get together and sort before he can leave.
Have you suffered from any kind of depression before this? if so I would suggest going to see your doctor regarding this as he can refer you to talk to someone that can help, this depression is only going to get worse the closer the time comes to him leaving and will carry on once he has gone due to you then worrying about the unknown.
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