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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Me and my boyfriend have been in a serious long term relationship on/off. He's currently with his brother and dad in Mexico. The brother is 'technically' single, and the dad who is also 'technically single'..(even as much as I respect parents) isn't a father-figure, and is more of a friend. (He'll take them out to strip clubs, drinking, smoking pot, etc) The night before we left we went to Wallgreens and the dad had bought a travel pack of condoms. I found this odd because they're all staying in a one room place..My boyfriend assured me before he left that nothing would happen. He's staying up there a full week. I've heard from an anonymous source telling me that the dad has on occasion bought hookers, and has no doubt he's doing that for his sons. I haven't heard any word from my boyfriend so far, and this knowledge is bothering me to my core, I almost feel sick. I honestly don't know what he would do if he was pressured into a position like that. And I'm not sure he'd tell me, cause there's really no way for me to find out..What should I do?? Thank you all agony aunts!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): You tolerate strip clubs, drinking, smoking pot with dear old Dad, but draw the line at hookers? WTF? You need to draw the line about 100 yards up hill... Dad sounds like a mess, and your "bf" (and what the hell is a 'serious LD on and off again' relationship?) seems like a young guy who will let his buddy Dad pay for all this...Sounds like you need to decide just how serious Mr. On/Off is. Maybe he's off you when he's on the hooker... but then again it could be the dope or beer...and 'pressured' to partake? PLEASE... a naked crack whore with a beer and joint and you're worried about him being PRESSURED...
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