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writes: I have been having an affair with a man for 15 months, he has been living with me. Now he has decided to go home for his daughter. He says he's told the wife about the affair and that he didnt love her, and she has accepted it.My question is, is he telling the truth?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2006): My question is, would you be really surprised if he was lying?? Answer probably not this guy has probably got a PHD in lying he is cheating on his wife and child with you and yet you expect total honesty open your eyes and come into the real world. I think you should just forget about him and get a guy that is yours all yours not someone who fits you into his real life like some sort of hobby, you deserve better than this guy can ever offer you, and lets face it even if he leaves his wife for you, whos to say that when he gets you pregnant and he has to worry about another child, even just day to day living with someone that he wont get bored and leave you too!! Leopards never change their spots get rid of him
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (19 March 2006):
 i think he really wants to give his family and marriage another go. i think you should accepted that your affair is over and move on.
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reader, Starrla +, writes (19 March 2006):
 I think he's not telling you the truth,not to me a rude or nothing But I think he's just trying to tell you he wants back with his family.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (17 March 2006):
 It's too bad you didn't find someone who was available. I never feel sorry for the "other" person. If you don't want to get fleas, don't lay down with dogs. I would give him the same advice.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (17 March 2006):
 Probably not. And sorry to be harsh but I think he has realised he made a mistake going off wiht you and wants back into the arms of his family....family being wife and child. This is his way of letting *you down gently* as it were.
Sorry, but that is just my opinion.
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