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female
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anonymous
writes: Should i continue my relationship with my boyfriend of seven years coz he recently admitted he was bisexual and had a same sex partner during some time in our relationship? Thank you very much - Distraught soul
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reader, willywombat +, writes (15 May 2006):
He cheated on you period. Would you be asking the same question if it was another woman? It shouldn't matter if they were of the opposite sex...just the fact he was unfaithful should give you pause for thought.
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reader, Aunt Audrey +, writes (15 May 2006):
Whether your boyfriend is bi-sexual or not is no excuse for him to cheat on you, does it matter that he had sex with another man and not a woman, he was still unfaithfull to you!
Only you can answer the question as to whether you should stay with him or not, it is after all you he cheated on and you who will have to live with the consequences of his actions. Will you be able to trust him again, can you continue in the relatioship knowing what you know now?
You have been together a long time, was this the only time he cheated on you, or do you think there could have been other times? You need to speak to your b/f and find out why he felt the need to cheat on you in the first place.
I think you need to be sure this isn't going to happen again, if he feels he may not be able to remain faithfull to you due to his attraction to men maybe you should get out of the relationship now.
Good luck!
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