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writes:Well this is my story. See my boyfriend promised his mom last year that he will take her away on holiday when he has time off. He has his own business so it does not always happen that he has time off, anyway, that was before i was in the picture so they decided they will go away this Easter, leaving tonight at 11 they should be there in about 8 to 9 hours. The thing is i have been trying to strong about this as it will only be 4 days yet emotionally i cant handle it. I know its just his mom and all that, after all its not some other women, i just feel hurt about the fact that i just cant go with, although i would have said no cause i still have lots of work to do. I dont what to do with myself i miss him already. A break from each other is good right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm not mad or upset at all. What he normally does is, he will first make the money he will use for whatever it my be then he will try double it, so by the end of the day what ever st was that he wanted to buy he will actually be buying it for free, this past 2 weeks his been really busy, doubling and stressing about work. Which turned out okay cause i was still there to help him and make in feel okay. I'm a emotional, fragile girl, i break easily, for some strange reason. I'm positive towards other people, to try and make them positive but when i need to be positive for myself, 'its only 4 days, relax take it easy, it will be over soon' then i cry again for no reason....
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): Taking time away from eachother is very important. You need to be able to stand when he's away and vice versa. 4 days is really not that long in the grand scheme. Keep yourself busy and it will be over before you know it. If you can't handle this...that might come off as a little needy...and no one likes that!
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reader, pistongirl25  +, writes (9 April 2009):
A break from each other is always good. You shouldn't be mad its his mom. I think you might be a little possessive. That doesn't mean that you can't go out with your girlfriends and plus you said you have a lot of work done. Get all of your work done so when he comes home you can focus on him. But you need to keep yourself busy. I don't know if you workout but that is the best way to stay positive and not think about him as much. Cleaning and shopping also works wonders. I would highly recommend these things to keep your mind off him. I'm sure he will call you and send you pics. Just wait but don't act mad because it isn't work causing a fight over.
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