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writes:The last time I heard from my boyfriend was Thursday night. He said he would call me in the next couple of days. I know he had things on his mind but I am getting worried. I want to call him but he told me he doesn't want to hear from me. I am hurt.
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reader, Carina  +, writes (1 July 2007):
 I know it's hurtful but it's true that it would be best not to call him if that's what he's asked. I'm sure he just has other things on his mind and perhaps he needs to think and sort things out. We all need some time alone sometimes and some people need it more than others. Tis can be very hard for the other person in a relationship, but if you want it to work, then you have to accept this.
That's why it's important to keep your own life going and not get too wrapped up in being a couple. Then, if he needs time alone, you'll have lots of other things to do and won't start worrying. He'll love you all the more if, when you do talk, you're upbeat and have things to tell him about what you've been doing. By all means tell him you missed him, but don't go on about it! Hope this helps a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007): I would not call him, give him his space, and don't be available 100% of the time when he calls you, it is human nature to want what is hard to get, and what you think you cannot have....at some point that has to stop however, and a real relationship begins, but until he makes that commitment to you, you better be thinking about dating other guys just to keep yourself from waiting around for this one....good luck.
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