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*runiegirl6
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and im really into him, i thought he was really into me but untill he was showing me his pictures on his phone and 5 pictures of his EX popped up and he hid his phone but "before i could see them".. He told me he doesnt like/talk to her anymore, So why does he have them? i havent told him i saw. but should i? its playing on my miind:(
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reader, basketball23  +, writes (21 November 2011):
A guy should not have pictures of his ex on his phone like that. Were the same age and I'm tellin you get out now before you end up heartbroken. You've got to take that seriously. It's a huge red flag. If that doesn't punch you in the face saying I still love another girl... He obviously knew they were there he was hiding it from you. Don't be silly. You deserve a guy with 50 pictures of you on his phone. Don't ever let yourself think you deserve a guy with intrest in other girls. Noone should ever put up with that.
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (20 November 2011):
 Like previous comments say, talk to him, my ex still has pictures of me and others ex's on his facebook, there is no reason to delete them unless they had a bad break up then you would most likely delete them, if they are not sexy photos then i wouldnt worry, although i understand why you feel this way.
If they are sexy photos then you have a problem and you should deffinitly try talking to him and ask him to delete them, if he refuses or makes an argument out of it then i recomend you move on.
Good luck :) x
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reader, supermum +, writes (20 November 2011):
 If it is bothering you, then say something. The fact that he explained himself proves he knows you saw. I have plenty of pictures of my exes, simply because I forget they are there, and also because I have no reason to delete them. They are doing no harm, they are just memories past.
However, you could ask him why he has them, and start it that way.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 November 2011):
 If it is playing on your mind well then yes tell him, they are probably memories for him so he chose to keep them. Talk to him and see what he says.
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