A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of 5 years has left me twice for another women. The last one was a 17 year old girl, and now he came back and says he loves me and wants to work on thins. But i took him back once and he promised all the same things, so should i fall for it again or move on, which is very hard to do when you love someone so much.
View related questions:
move on Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, oldfool  +, writes (13 July 2008):
 A pattern of breaking up and getting back together, breaking up and getting back together is not a very good one. I don't think the prospects are terribly good for such a relationship, although there is always a chance that in the end the two people will finally stay together. (Of course, there is an equal or greater chance that they will break up in the end).
But when someone keeps leaving you for ANOTHER PERSON, I think the situation rather hopeless. You will always be threatened by the possibility that he'll find someone else. And what is worse, there is a very high likelihood that he will. You can't have a proper relationship if you're waiting to be dumped, and he obviously isn't able to commit to you without running off the moment something else appears on the horizon.
I don't think he's going to change. If you want a life of misery, by all means take him back. Otherwise, move on to someone better.
A
female
reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (12 July 2008):
 It's so hard to love someone that don't love you. If he has left you twice, it's because he does not see a future with you. If you want to be serious, and have a family, settle down, etc, he is NOT the person to do that with. Soory hon:(
...............................
|
