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writes:Hi,I really dont know what to do and would appreciate some advice. For some reason over the past four days, my boyfriend has decided to ignore me and wont contact me for no reason. I dont know what Ive done wrong, we haven't argued or even said a bad word against each other. I just dont know what to do, I love him but I cant stand being treated in this way, what should I do in this situation?Thanks you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi all,
Thanks so much for the advice, really appreciate it!
He had been ignoring me on purpose, so I managed to have it out with him and ended the relationship. It hurts like hell but least I now know he's not the one for me and I deserve better x
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (28 October 2011):
 I suggest you wait him out.... and when that OTHER GIRL - who he thought was going to be an "easy make-out" for him - fails to come through... THEN he will come back to your.... grovelling for your attention.... and you will be able to get ANYTHING you want from the desparate twit!!!!Good luck.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2011): ignore him back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2011): Have you been to his house and asked him if he's ok?
If you haven't then maybe you should, just ask him whats going on, as you deserve an explanation.
As he hasn't been to see you to explain a) his phones broken/lost or b) he has some family crisis - then it could be his cowardly way of finishing things.I don't know how often he usually contacts you or how long you have been dating though.
Good luck
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 October 2011):
 Are you sure he's ok?
if you had no fight and have had NO contact I would verify with someone that he's ok...
or are you contacting him via phone and he's blowing you off???
I would not use texts or emails you can' verify they are received.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (28 October 2011):
 Have you tried texting or calling him? If you have tried ringing and you know his phone is on, then I would do the following:
Send him one final text message saying something like this:
"Hi, you have been ignoring me for the last 4 days and I have no idea why or what I have done wrong. We are supposed to be in a relationship where we communicate and talk about our problems, but if you are going to be so childish and simply ignore me then I have had enough. This is the last time I will contact you, if you do have any feelings for me or still want us to be together then please reply and we can sort this out. If this was just your way of breaking up with me then so be it, I wish you all the best."
After you send him this one last message - give him 24 hours and if he still hasnt replied then you can confirm that you have broken up, he is a massive coward and you can do a heck of a lot better. Delete his number, facebook etc and start the process of moving on. You dont deserve to be treated like this, he is being so immature so he really isnt worth your time - this one final message should sort it out for you. Hopefully he will get over himself and reply, but if he doesnt then at least you can be sure that he doesnt want to be with you anymore, and knowing for certain is better than being in limbo like this.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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