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My boyfriend has Asperger's. How do I help him?

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Question - (29 December 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 January 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Okay, I just got into a relationship with this guy. I love him a whole lot. From the begining he told me he has a social disorder, but never which one. About a month ago he told me it was Aspergers. I've been looking it up and it sounds horrible. I dont want this to change our relationship and all. Can anyone help me with what to do, to help him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011):

My boyfriend has AS but it doesnt effect us. He has just a mild case of it, and i the more i read about it online, the more i see it in me. But dont let that effect anything, but you should do some research on it, because after I did, i started to understand why he said some things he did. He didnt mean them, he just didnt know what he was saying basically. But i love him with all my heart, i will be patiant with him and i acknowlaage whats going on. You should do the same. Good luck, hun xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2010):

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thanks and for everyone it seems to be different

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010):

I have asperger's syndrom. I live a full life and maintain a serious romantic relationship. I live with the yin and yang symbol around my neck and tattooed on my back to always remind to find my balance and help others find their balance in this world. I'm not afraid to cry or show emotion but I will also kick butt with eight years of Shotokan karate training.

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (29 December 2010):

petina1 agony auntDo some research on the subject. Everyone has different aspects to that relate to them. Find out all y ou can about it , look it up on the internet, find a way to work with it and understand what it's all about and what it can entail. Once you understand it more you will cope better with the way he goes about his life and you could find ways to enjoy your life together more.

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