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writes: Hi..I've been with my boyfriend now for about 5 months. We met at uni a few years ago and have been friends and lived together, so we knew each other well before we got together. This also means I've met his exes and he's met mine.However, at the moment, I feel so lonely. At the begining it was great but now it's changed. We never go out, we never just have a night of dvd, wine and takeaway, nothing. And even though I try to initiate something, he'll go along for a bit, then play computer games, or call his mates. He never does those little gestures, doesnt wait for me after work, or doenst say he loves me without me saying it first. On top of all this, he treated his ex like a princess, spening over a £1000 to go and see her when she lived abroad, took her out, generally spent time with her. He's kept all the letters she sent him, and photos of them kissing and hugging. He even had naked phots on the computer of her, until I went mad when I saw them. And there are other girls he's been with too, photos, letters. etc.he never wants to show ME affection in public. he never even wants photos taken with me. He says he loves me and i don;t know what to do. Please, I'm going mad.
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reader, muffy  +, writes (25 November 2007):
 ok this is where you draw the line!tell him how you feel and you dont appreciate what hes doing,or,what hes NOT doing.if he really loves you then hell show affection.but just because he doesnt treat you like a princess doesnt mean he doesnt love you.so just remember that.let him know whats going on and see what happens.if he argues with you and disagrees,then end it.let him go with one of his ex girlfriends.just make sure that you keep your dignity and end it first if he disagrees or doesnt listen.ok.
i hope i helped
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