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*olleyball6
writes:I'm 15 and me and my bf have been dating 8 months. Wehave a strong relationship but he gets alllll mad and jealous if I talk to other boys as friends? Also he gets mad when I have plans with my friends like a girls night out. He always says well I guess they're more Important or he'll be like way to make other plans. It's anoying sometimes. I'm 15 Im allowed to have friends too. I love hanging with my bf but I also try hanging with my friends so my parents don't say I'm ditching them cause I have a bf or say I'm to serious with him. I thnk I'm doing the right thing?..
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 June 2010):
 Your boyfriend is immature and insecure--not uncommon at his age but it's really not healthy for you to be controlled by a jealous boyfriend.
You SHOULD be hanging out with your friends, you SHOULD be maintaining all your relationships, not just the one with him. He's important, of course, but if he can't handle the fact that you have other people you like to be with, then he's WAY too immature and needs to do some growing up.
Are you the one who asked about breasts growing?
Sweetheart, you are rushing things, and in my opinion, you should give yourself some time before you have to put up with the demands of a boyfriend, let alone a selfish and immature one.
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reader, Volleyball6 +, writes (16 June 2010):
Volleyball6 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know but I can't leave him like I really love him and he knows I won't leave so idk how else to getmy point across. His older brother says he gets jealous and doesntrealize what he has till it's gone
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (16 June 2010):
 Your boyfriend is wrong. Your friends are just as important as he is and if you ditch them and then you and he split up you would have no one. He needs to grow up a bit and check out how real relationships work. Keep making plans with your friends and if he doesn't like it then show him the door. Life's too short to put up with someone being so jealous like that.
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