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writes:Me and my boyfriend went on a small vacation to see my cousin, the weekend was expected to be really nice as i dont see my cousin very often (My cousin is female) When we got there all was pretty normal but after a while my boyfriend began tickling her, playing with her toes, laughing at all her jokes, and letting her decide what would be done every day that we were there i guess you could say they were flirting. To top everything off with a cherry i sat in the back seat of my car all weekend while they sat up front laughing and having a good time. Not only was this already super uncomfortable, but after a while there were a lot of jokes being told and of coarse i was the main topic, what should i do!!!! He already knows that i am like pissed off at him but do i tell her anything i dont want her to think that i am jealous cause i am not, but at the same time she let it happen. ( oh and the main topic of the weekend was how to get her man to give her oral sex, and this topic was discussed soley amungst her and my man) HELP
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 May 2010):
 You need to teach your b/f some etiquette and tell him where are your limits and boundaries.
Cousin or no cousin , he has crossed the line and hurt your feelings. He is being insensitive and selfish.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (11 May 2010):
 She either didn't get that he was flirting, or she thought it was harmless and somehow thought you were cool with it. If not she sounds like a bad friend. In either case, even if she let the flirting happen, it is your boyfriends job as a good boyfriend to NOT flirt with anyone! Harmless flirts ok when you are not around at least, but it sounds like he totally ditched you, which is not cool. Give him a call and tell him where the line is, and give him a chance to proove he wont cross it again.
PS. I had this happen to me too once so I understand how you feel, your boyfriend was being a lousy boyfriend basically.
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