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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Umm basically i have a boyfriend right and he loves me and i love him back...we've been together for about umm 7 or 8 months now and we didnt really have the "gay" way of asking eachother out.. he movved to my school and then we were chatting online then we started sayin bye ily and all that.. then one day at school he told me he loved me.. and then people wer asking if we were dating and well because we didnt have the asking eachother out thing we didnt really know if we were dating lolz.. and then since everyone was asking us if we were and he started walking to and back from school with me.. we said ok then we are and well we are good as a couple but im not sure if im the only one he loves.. you see the thing is that im not in any of his classes and theres this girl that his really close to.. and they're LIKE best friends and they mess around in class lolz see shes lucky shes in his classes im not.. but i dont know why he likes them girls more i guess if i ask him he'll just think i dont trsut him or something and if i do ask he'll say no i like u more..and ive seen that he has soo much more fun with them ... with my ex the sort of same thing happened apart from the fact that my ex used to be all over this other girl n ma current bf isnt i just dont understand anything.. im confused umm help?? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): He's allowed to have female friends, just like you're allowed to have male friends. If you feel like he has more fun with his female friends, plan an activity to do together, like playing in a park, playing miniature golf, driving go-karts, going on a bike ride, etc. Make it fun for him to hang out with you.
So far, it doesn't sound like he's cheating on you or really going after the other girl. He's dating you, not her, after all.
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