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writes:hi guys im gonna try and keep this short but it's kind of a long story.im turning 16 in 2 months and i have been going out with a guy since i was 12.my best friend use to go out with him wen she was 11 i wouldint relly call that dating but it is what it is.she started liking him again about 4 months ago and always flirts with him and because of it we lost are friendship.i had this fealing that my boyfriend was starting to get interested in her because she goes around in miny skirts and shirts that show her bra and she would do anything with a guy.me on the other hand i go around with long sleave shirts and jeans and i wont go any further then making out with a guy because i dont think im ready for it.now that you know that heres my question.my boyfriend keeped tealling me that he dint like her and that he loves meand i care about him with all my heart ive never like an other guy.a week ago i left for spring brake and when i came back he texted me and said we need to talk its important.he then told me that when i was gone he spent alot of time with my best friend and that he liked her and that he did not want to end up cheating on me because he dint trust himself alone with her any more and then he asked me if i thought we should brake up...hes all i have my parents died when i was 3 and i grew up with my grand parents and they died in a plane crash when i was 13 so now im in a foster home and the people hate me and i have no one to talk to and he was all i had and im scared of loosing him...plz help any suggestion is greatly apriciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthx for the advice.i broke it off with him and now his with my ex best friend.and as for activities im already in alot and everyone there thinks im a reay nice polite but im realy shy so when ever someone comes over and says hi i usualy say hi back and walk away because i dont know them thats why i dont have that many friends...alot of the reason for that is that im preatty so guys usualy think im a bitch because all the other preatty girls in my school are
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reader, krazydee19  +, writes (15 April 2010):
you deserve so much better than that.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 Oh sweetie I wish you could come and live with me but I live in another country.
I'm glad you are not friends with this girl anymore because she is not a loyal person and does not deserve your friendship.
If your boyfriend does leave you for her then he is as shallow as she is and also not good enough for you. It really annoys me that he says to you that he can't trust himself around her. Basically that says to me that he is not as committed to you as you are to him.
I would love you to have the courage to break it off with him because I think you deserve better.
Are there any extra curricular things you could join at school to help widen your circle of friends?
Gather your inner strength and grace and hold your head high. You will go far in life your ex friend and boyfriend I highly suspect will not!
Keep in touch and let us know how you get on. Sending you lots of love.
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