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female
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30-35,
*u.paloma
writes:I have been dating the same guy for two years and 4 months now and he is kind, giving, funny.. he is very opposite of me, that is why i love him so much. to me, the only problem we have is i like to go out with my friends... it's actually specific types of club where my friends work at, I met my current bf there and he hates it when i go. I suggested that we go together but he doesn't want to go with me or me by myself. it's very frustrating for me because i like to go and be with my friends and mostly i like to practice my spanish and dancing. my friends go because the guys pay to dance so it's a win situation for them, but I don't ever charge for dances, i just go for fun and i have told my bf this many times but he still hates when i go. I went last week and told him the next day that i went and he broke up with me, but we still talk on the phone as friends and got back together yesterday. I love him so much but i don't know if we should just go back to being friends because i feel like he is trying to control a part of my life that i am not willing to give up just yet. I am young, and don't have any kinds, i make good grades, and i don't believe i should have to give up something that is so innocent (for me). Plz help..
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (20 December 2011):
 I understand your boyfriend being a bit nervous about it. You met him there, so in his mind you could just as easily meet someone else there. Then again, that could be said of just about anywhere.
He is being a bit controlling so maybe it's best you remain friends for now. The added benefit to that is he learns that if he tries to control someone, he risks losing them entirely. He may choose to be more reasonable in the future.
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