A
female
age
41-50,
*exy n wild
writes:My boyfriend ignores me in bed every time. We have sex once or twice a week and it lasts exaclty 10 minutes both foreplay (if any) and penetration, and no cuddling after that or even a shot of another round because he is either too tired or just can't do it! He doesn't show any emotions at all while he is making love and I dont know if he is enjoying or not and the most hurtful thing is that I never know that he is coming! He ignores my body and rejects it and I am going crazy. I love every part in him and in bed, believe me I am the man not him. He doesnt care at all, and if I open the subject, he claims that I am psychologically sick with sex (me) and hurts me with many words that kill me. I even started researching masturbation in order to satisfy myself and not need him any more in this thing and learn how to do it without having to undergo his selfishness and quick ejaculation each time which leaves me so unsatisfied and disgusted. What can I do? He is very supportive,caring, handsome, younger that me with 3 years and I love being with him, but he is very snobbish and selfish and doesnt care what I feel, although I am much more vibrant, active, sexy and hyper than him. I am really depressed and full of stress.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): fin yourself a man that will want to be with you sexualy,i did and i now know how it feels to be wanted and made to feel sexy
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male
reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 Just don't have sex with him anymore. That simple. He doesn't deserve it by the sound of it so you shouldn't let him have it. He insults you in so many ways and you probably don't deserve those insults. Tell him to be a man in bed or be a man without a bed. Seriously, have real sex or no sex at all. What you describe is very weak so buy him a magazine and some lotion and tuck in early.
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