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writes:My bf broke up with me out of nowhere. I don't know what happened or what I did. He just seems angry with me all the time. I can't seem to let go of him though. What do I do? Should I keep trying? Should I give up? I have to see him everyday so I can't just ignore him. I don't know what to do. Any help would be so great. Thanks
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reader, meme3q  +, writes (8 September 2010):
Girl, men don't get mad for nothing most of the time, they are thinking how to get of the situation so they don't look bad, I say girl forget him let be mad, I say that cause I just went this I mean it was another chick and I could get over him now I'm cool I wish him the best but I know it won't be easy, its one of those things that's easier said than done.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (8 September 2010):
 Give the boy some space before you go demanding an explanation. Technically you're broke up so he doesn't owe you anything but I would be wondering why too. Let about a week or 2 go by before you approach him and nicely ask for an explanation. He could either choose to ignore you or give you his time. If he ignores you then take it as he's not going to tell you, sorry you're not getting closure on this one it's best to go about your business. However if he does explain why listen to what he says..then ask if you guys can be friends. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2010): In my opinion, he owes you an answer at the very least. If he's angry with you all the time, he has deep-rooted issues with something that you either did or didn't do. There's no point in fighting for this relationship if he's just going to give up like that. Talk to him and tell him how you feel about it happening out of the blue. He needs to know that it’s not fair to you at all to just drop the relationship with no explanation. Be prepared for an answer that you might not like, however. A lot of times, things usually happen like this because of another person being involved. I’m not saying that’s the case, but if you prepare yourself for the worst case scenario, you’ll be infinitely happier when you get an answer out of him. It’s important at the end of any relationship to get closure. Closure prevents obsessing about the outcome in the long run. You want to be at a place where you can look back and feel okay about this relationship, you can’t do that unless he gives you peace of mind. So bring it up to him, tell him how you feel, ask him in a non-threatening way to just explain his actions. Don’t be angry about it, because he’s likely to not even answer anger. Get angry AFTER you have your explanation.
As hard as it is right now, with closure you'll be in a good place in a few months. It's hard to let him go, but do you really want to be with someone that can be as cold-hearted as to do this to you? Good luck!
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