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*onelyheart23
writes:Ok so here is my dilema..its been about a week since my bf broke up with me and its driving me crazy I can't seem 2 get over it. He broke up with because he said I lyed about something( so stupid may I add) and now he feels he can't trust me, he says if I lye then I will keep doin it then I will cheat and then eventually steal from him. Where is all this coming from? I love him very much but he doesn't seem 2 get it and I don't know what more I can do??? The day b4 he broke up with me he was tellin me how much he loved me and the next day he just leaves me .I dong get it...I want him back but I don't know what I can do...so my question(s) are lol... since he just gave up on me so easily does this mean he never really loved me? And is there hope 4 us gettin back 2gether or shud I just forget it? And if I shud get over it what can I do because this has become very very hard for me 2 deal with and its only been a week.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (4 August 2008):
 Being dumped unexpectedly is a hard thing. It will take longer than a week to get over it, so give yourself time.
I believe if he really loved you, he would talk with you about issues that he was having with you. AT least give you a chance to change. Because he did it so quick..maybe his standards in a girl are so high..he feels he doesn't want to waste anytime with anyone that doesn't have the qualities he's looking for. Whatever the case..he made up his mind and you have to accept his decision. Don't ask for him back. Just go out with your friends and time will heal all pain.
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reader, melz  +, writes (4 August 2008):
hi,my names mellisaim not going to say that much so fi you want more information on this sort of problem add me on [sharing of emails are not permitted- Ed]but i see where your coming from, i myself was in this situation problem was i lost my v to him.if he really loved you then he woudl trusdt you as a relationship is based on trust, i dont see why he came out with he dont trust you :Syou need to just call him or go round and see him, sit down and speak in a rational voise and say somthing like, what was it that i lied to you about, and set the boy streight if you havent done anything rwrong then theres nothing to be worried about !i guess all boys are the same no matter what lol, love and people views in life change about a person, you yourself could love that person and he coudl love you but you could have just drifted but he might have just couldnt find a way to tell yout hat you have drifted so he is trying to put it on youp.s ;; i just say you dont run to him let him run to you hun, a girl shoudlnt wait for a boy.x
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