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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I tried to have sex last night... and we couldn't get 'it' in! I'm not sure if it was because i've not had sex that many times (once before, a long time ago)... or nerves ...or both. Oh. it was soo embarassing :( How can we avoid this happening again? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, mm2u +, writes (17 February 2008):
Hi!If the guy was not erect, then it may be because of that. You may have been nervous, or your Vagina may be tight, try stretching it and then try again.Good Luck!
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (15 February 2008):
Oh i've been there and almost thot there was a problem with my manhood.You see foreplay is not all about you,the girl but also da man.It's also important that you really turn him on.Actually it's easier on a man's part as it takes less time.I really suspect you were both nervous and probably the position made it hard for you guys.Continue trying,you'll get it in soon but don't feel so shy.When having sex,you need to be abit naughty at times.It could also be that he loses his erection as he's about to penetrate.I'm sure with time all this will be history.
Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): [i posted this question]that wasn't the problem... there was foreplay... and he was hard... but couldn't fit inside of me.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (15 February 2008):
 You provided little information about what preceded the attempt at intercourse, if anything, but even guys often need some degree of stimulation to reach a good erection. I would think that just some good foreplay, a bit of stroking and maybe an oral lick or some sucking should have your guy plenty hard enough for what you want.
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