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writes:Right well where do i start. me and my ex boyfriend were with each other for a long time and split up over something stupid. so i wanted to get him back. so i went with one of his best friends, who has a girlfriend. i'm still in love with my ex boyfriend. but he says he doesn't love me and that we'll never get back together. but he said that before and asked me back out. so.. should i wait for him? or should i move on? nd what should i do about his friend that has a girlfriend??signedconfused-feelingsp.s i really need your help.
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reader, LauraE +, writes (5 July 2007):
If your response to losing him was to try to get back at him, then you don’t love him, it was hurt pride. Maybe he weakened last time, but he has said he doesn’t love you, and I would be inclined to believe him. Give up on this one.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (4 July 2007):
 Oh dear that was not a good move was it, does your ex know about the friend and does the friends girlfriend know?
If it's just between you two, then you could wait around but only for a bit, you can't put your life on hold just waiting for him to come back to you.
If he does know then there is a very good chance that he feels that betrayed that he would not come back.
Just because you split up before and got back together does not mean the same will happen again, because just guessing but it was over something completely different before.
Maybe you should just move on because the fact you did this to get back at him shows that you really can't care all that much about him.
Take care.xx.
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