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My boyfriend and I have decided to spice things up with a little competition

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Question - (9 July 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together just over ten months and we have done most things (sexually) 'cept him on me (oral) and intercourse. (Just FYI, both 16)

We're quite active sexually but we're not going to see each other for two weeks as we're both off on holidays and we're forecasting a lot of built up sexual tension for when we get back and he's come up with this fun way to spend the day after I get back but I'm worried about it because he seems more sure about it than I am! It’s basically just a silly game that’ll give us both something to look forward too.

The basic idea is a "competition" to see who can pleasure the other the best/most. We're going to take it in turns to "pleasure" each other and then we'll judge at the end to see who wins and that person get's "something INCREDIBLE" from the other (I'm not sure what's he's thinking of if I win but if he wins I've decided I'll give him my virginity. :P Not just because of the game but because we've both been ready for a while and we just haven't had a free house).

But yeah. He seems to think this'll be an all day thing and I don't really know what he's expecting from me. I mean, there's the obvious hand job and blow job but then what else? He says he has all these ideas of stuff to do to me but he's had more experience than me (sexually) and I'm a bit lost.

So any suggestions? Or translations of what you think he's expecting? :P

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010):

Technical virgins and 16 year olds already make me LOL, this combination is epic.

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A female reader, heygirl United States +, writes (11 July 2010):

Hey, I've been 16 once, and if its one thing i would not do, its to give up my virginity. Im a girl here and take my advice, "DON'T DO IT" even if you said the both of you are ready there is no guaranteed he'll still want to be with you after you have given it up to him, and i do agree with RAINOFIRE, even if the both of you are judging he could just say you didn't do as good of a job as him. You're still young, so girl take it SlOW...there will be opportunity for you down the road with the right person....Here is what you wrote

"He says he has all these ideas of stuff to do to me but he's had more experience than me (sexually) and I'm a bit lost."

You're lost and he's had experience, think about it, will you end being just that girl he slept with or will you be someone he wants to be with, the both of you are still young, he probably still wants to have fun and so do you....there is no guaranteeing anything....so take it slow girl.....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010):

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@RAINONFIRE "Not just because of the game but because we've both been ready for a while and we just haven't had a free house)." Thanks for the "advise" but please read properly first. It's only a jokey thing and we're both judging so we'll work it out between us.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (10 July 2010):

RAINORFIRE agony auntwow lol so he gets your virginity if he wins... well whoes gonna be the judge... because all he has to do s say you didnt pleasure him very good walla he wins.. lol its so stupid.... look if you want to have sex with the turd just do it dont leave it up to the outcome of a silly game do it with love and im sure you wont regret it just becareful.

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