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writes:Dear cupidMy bf of 2 years has started chatting with his collegue ( a girl) in IM almost everyday. i saw his messages in his computer, it was just hi, how r u doing kind of messages, but she doesnt respond much and he is the one who always initiates the chat.I am kind of worried that he is gonna go overboard if she responds to him. I dont know whether to ask him about his or not. I dont want to sound jealous, but the girl looks really pretty. How do i handle this. Please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI confronted him today and he lied saying like he definitely is not talking to her. i cannot tell him that i saw his messages, it would look like i am checking his messages. Anyway i am planning to leave him for good. I dont think i can believe him anymore
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2011):
She doesn't sound interested, so I wouldn't worry about her too much. However, I would worry about your boyfriend being a pig who feels a need to chat up hotties when he has a hottie interested in him already. Keep an eye on this dude.
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (13 May 2011):
It's definitely an issue. Why does he need to be chatting up some hottie at work when he has you? I'd confront him about it and tell him you don't like it and ask that he stop. If he hits you with the "but, we're just friends" bullshit tell him if he wants a friend while dating you then he should get a dog. Good luck.
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