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writes: hello my name is fiona and i think i might be pregnent and i dont know how 2 tell my boyfriend cuz he hates kids and advice Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2006): Maybe he hates his childhood and not children themselves. Maybe he sees the innocence of children and feels robbed of his and resents the loss and not children.
More often than not, adults who lay claim to hating children, are projecting unfair meaning onto them.
He could also see chidren as a responsibility/burden that infringes on his freedom.
It could also mean he had a Mother and Father who did not love one another and co-exsisted.
Either way, he deserves to know.
I am going to recommend you get some individual counselling and couples' counselling ASAP.
You both will need help in sorting out your thoughts and feelings and will need guidance on how to prepare the best that you can -which is mentally-for the new arrival.
Take Care and Best Wishes.
*Hugs*
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reader, confussed jane +, writes (29 December 2006):
well i think you should make sure u are first do testand if you are defantally then sit him down and just tell him thats the best thing to do and if he really loves you then he will listen and accept what has happened just say look i love you so much and want be with you forever but there is something i have got to tell you.
i wish you all the best xx
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