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My bf found old sex pics of my ex on my hard drive! Now he doesn't trust me..any advice?

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Question - (15 April 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend (of 9 months)recently found old sex videos and pictures on my hard drive my ex-boyfriend and I took back in 2004. I meant to delete them, but never did. Now he says he can't trust me and I think he wants to break up with me. Am I being childish by thinking it's not worth breaking up? And that our relationship is more important?

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A female reader, XXpussycatXX United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2007):

hun hun hun if you was meant to have done it you would have if you to are happy you need to sit down and talk about it k otherwise you could lose him for good

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A male reader, rk06 United States +, writes (16 April 2007):

rk06 agony auntTell me this. How would you feel if the person you love had pictures and videos of him and some other girl and him having sex?

If I found something like this, I would end it immediatly.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2007):

He may not share the same core values that you do. Maybe he does not like a girl who video tapes herself having sex and saves it to her computer...so no your relationship is not more important than the differing values that you share because it won't work if he can't trust AND RESPECT you.

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