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writes: the problem is that my bf does not trust me. he is always keeping secrets. in spite of that,he has a big mouth. he tells his folks every little thing about us. what am i to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (16 December 2005):
 Trust is very important to a relationship, without it, you may find it very hard to move forward in the relationship. If he doesn't mind if you go out with friends, or go do things with out him then it could be that he has been hurt in the past by a girlfriend he has confided in. Unfortunately new girlfriends often are left to clean up the messes of the previous ones. If you think the issue is some past hurt then you should try to be supportive and assure him that you are not going to use anything he tells you against him later. Also, you may want to mention that though it is great that he has such a good relationship with his parents, you would appreciate it if they did not know everything about you and your business. I hope you guys can work it out, good luck.
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