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writes: Hay, I am really down at the moment because my best friend doesn’t want to talk to me anymore!! She says she doesn’t trust me. Let me explain … my friend met a lad in a bar and got on really well with him. A few days later they were going out, having sex, the lot! Calling each other boyfriend-girlfriend!! I thought this was a bit rushed but hey, I let her get on with it. She then introduced him to me and I seemed to get on really well with him. After the first week things weren’t going as hoped for them both and they both agreed to split up!! He explained that his previous ex girlfriend had just finished with him!!! So in a way he used my best mate because he was on the rebound. I asked him if that was the case and he agreed!!!! This was evil and I was angry with him for it!!!!! Even though my best friend still had feelings for him she agreed that it was best to be mates so she wouldn’t loose him completely. Well then he told her that he didn’t actually like her and that he liked me!! She was upset by this and asked me not to talk to him. I had grown quite a fond friendship with him and I also had feelings for him. I kept this to my self and told her I didn’t like him and was supporting her. I told her to trust me and that I wouldn’t go after her ex boy friend. I truly meant it and didn’t talk to him!! A few nights later, he was in the same bar as us. I got really drunk and apparently kissed him!!! I can’t remember this at all. Someone told me best friend and she fell out with me! I told her I was sorry and this would never happen again and that I wouldn’t talk to him. She trusted me again!!! It was hard not to talk to him though because he phoned me every 10 minutes. I told him the situation I was in and that I couldn’t talk to him because it upset my friend. Him and me arranged to meet up so we could discuss this face to face. And I would never see him again after meeting up with him. He agreed with this!!!! I didn’t want to hurt my best friend so I didn’t tell her!! Bad idea because she managed to find out by reading one of my text messages! Now she says she can’t trust me at all and doesn’t want to be my friend!! She told me to do what I want now with her ex-boyfriend, but if I do then she would never be a friend with me again. I have deleted her ex’s number from my phone book and put a block on his calls but still this is not good enough for my friend. She doesn’t want to know me what can I do? It’s a shame because I have been a friend for 6-7 years? Do you think it’s a bit pathetic?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat would you like to happen between you and this gal?? your friend has finished with this gal so she is free to do what ever she wants!! he should get over her!! it must have ended between them for a reason! he has propaly met some one in australia anyway!! even if it is ur best mates ex gal, feelings cannot be hidden. thinks may be awkward but if he is a real friend he would get over it. it is best to be truthful to him though and tell him what has happened. the truth will always come out in the end. whats so good about her anyway?? ur 19 and im sure their is plenty of young women around for you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2006): i havent got an answer sorry, but can u help me. long story short. my friend broke up with his gal, a week later goes to australlia, another week later me and friend are at his ex's home, for some reason were playing spin the bottle we kiss, and then she kisses me a week later again, shes 36, im 19. hes back in a month, what to do? help please!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (20 February 2006):
 Do you think it was wise to make special arrangements to meet someone face to face so you could tell him you couldn't see him? I can see why she's angry. You said you liked him a little too and I suspect that's why you met him. At least, part of the reason.
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