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writes:okay so ill try to make it as less complicated as i can! i went to a party last night, my best friend (sarah)s 17th and there was this guy there! james, sooon as i saw him i thought *wow he looks gorgeous tonight!* (we had met before, and id liked him before) so anyway, after a few too many lagers we got dancing and stuff, and he kissed me! i was like OHH MYY! :D:D it pleased me so much! but then he went for some fresh air, and sarah followed him outside! so i just let it go over my head and carried on dancin with everyone else on the dance floor :) so this other guy, ricky, who was a friend of james's and ricky fancied the pants off of sarah! so *apparently* ricky told james that he liked sarah, so james took sarah outside to tell her that ricky liked her! while sarah was hopefully gonna tell james how much i liked him! but james n sarah ended up snoggin each other! so me n ricky were just dancin, nothing elsee and sarah comes back in shoutin abuse at me! oh how could ya! calling me a slag! and sayin im desperate n stuff! so i got really pissed off and told her to stick all her boyfriends up her arse! if ya cant chose who ya like, just have um all! and i walked out, but i wanted her to follow me! i know i was in a mood with her, but i wanted my best friend to be the one that followed me! but she didnt! she carried on laughin and jokin with everyone, the one that followed me was james! he followed me out and asked me how i was n stuff, said she was out of order and then we ended up kissin! so i was like eh :S james! who do you like?! me or sarah cos im not gerrin messed about! i saw you snog her face off n now ya come n try do it to me! make ya mind up. and he told me he liked me and stuff, we ended up dancin all night and he ended up stoppin at mine last night (friday) now sarah wont speak to me! she wants ricky but she wants james, just cos she dunt want me to be with him! im so confuused! do i go out with james and loose my best friend? and then let her have him just so i cant? grrrr this has really pissed me off! please can someone give me ANY advice!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for your reply (: Sarah actually went away saturday, the day after the party for a week, but she already is going out with a totally different guy called mark, who shes been with on and off for like 10 months, no me and james didnt have sex on friday, were actually drunk, and we went back to mine (my family wernt even in!) we went straight upstairs and we layed in bed and talked, i have a double bed.. my parents wernt in.. a girl and a guy, to be honest this kind of proved hes an okay lad cos he didnt try anything on with me, he kissed me a few times but we just talked (: thanks again huunn x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): Hi babes, I don't like any of them, well apart from you and Ricky that is. I don't like the way Sarah took your guy outside and started snogging him, I don't like the way she started shouting and abusing you, and I don't like James, he starts kissing everyone, what the hell is he on.
I like you, and I like Ricky. Sarah was trying to embarrass you but I loved your answer, it was really funny and made her look like a stupid fool... lol... "stick all your boyfriends up your arse"... that was really cool, you know how to get straight to the point.... that was really, really funny....
I'm not sure about James, how could he kiss you and then kiss her. He stayed with you on Friday. I don't mean to be rude, but did you have sex? What is he doing, is he still seeing her, did he promise her something when they were kissing outside? Why did he do this, surely he knows that you and her are friends? Now he's broken up your friendship, now that's not a very nice thing to do?
I think you need to talk to her, find out what happened between her and James, find out if she likes him, find out if them two are still seeing one another. Then talk to James, ask him what's going on, ask him the same thing, and ask him if he's seeing her as well.
I really don't like him at the moment, it looks like he's playing games with two friends. Ask them what's going on and then come back and update us on your situation. Take care of you, I'm sorry things have gone this way. Maybe they had too much to drink and that's why they behaved this way....
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