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writes: I have fallen for this girl at school, the problem is she does not know that i exist. I have liked her for 4 years, since i started secondary school.I am really shy, but my best friend knows her really well.He was telling me what to get her like gifts and stuff. Then I would give these gifts to my best mate and then he would give them to her and say they were from me. Or at least that is what i though he was doing. I got some concert tickets for them both, he told me that he would talk to her and tell her how i feel about her because i was too nervous to.One day after school he told me where she would be after school. So i went where he told me and went into the room and they were french kissing.The next day i found out that he and her had been going out for about 4 years since i started liking her, and that they had been playing me for all the gifts i was buying.Now him and her have broken up and know she says that she wants me and i still like her.What should i do? Should i go out with her? Or not??
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reader, ClaireAndJamieXX  +, writes (2 August 2008):
 Well could you have asked for a better ending? Go for it! As for your friend?.. I wouldnt even look at him again! =] xx
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 Tough question. I would figure out the details on why she is no longer with your "friend". Is it something you are prepared to deal with yourself? Did she know you liked her at all while the were together? Is your "friend" trying to make a mends with you now? The likelyhood of the two of you being a couple forever are slim, as most young relationships are. It is entirely up to you wether or not you want to be her boyfriend. If she was involved in using you though, I would avoid getting involved with her, she will break your heart and continue to use you because she knows she can. If she wasnt involved, then she just might be a good girl for you, never know untill you try;)
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