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writes:My best friend in the whole world used to date this guy and he tried to fix me up with one of his guy friends....well his friend ended up going off to school far away and me and him just bacame friends....anyway while he was in school he dated other girls as I did other guys, but now me and him are both single...and I think my best friend is trying to date him. my whole thing is she went with his friend and he was mine from the start even though me and him never dated I feel like she is crossing the line...I dunno if he likes her, also I was talkin to him on the phone the other day and she got so upset because I never gave her the phone. But he knew she was around me but he never told me to give her the phone...but he did tell me to give the phone to one of his guy friends that I was around????wat do you think about the whole situation????
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (20 February 2007):
 I think you have to calm down a bit and stop worrying about the situation so much. Basically, you cannot control your best friend and you cannot control this man either. You can control you and how you react to the situation. If you and this guy are mean't to be together then it will just happen. If he decides to date your friend or she seduces him then he just wasn't worth the effort was he? You could do without all the hassle. So just wait it all out. Your best friend isn't wrong her because she sees him as a single man - he is not your boyfriend yet. I personally wouldn't jeopardise a good friendship over a random man who isn't even your boyfriend yet - plenty of men out there, not so many best friends!
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