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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Last night me and my boyf went for a drink with his step-dad(who he sees as a real dad) and a few other men from his work.Things were going ok at first but then we went back to his dads area and his dad went in this pub that I don't like because everytime I go in there something bad always seems to happen,(either this girl is in there who used to bully me really bad at work,or someone gives me racist abuse,etc).Anyway my boyf knows I don't like going in there so before we went in I asked him if we could go home and he said no.We were stood outside and he was shouting at me really loud and swearing,and it didn't help that he was drunk.Then he said p**s off and went in the pub and I walked round to his mum's house in the dark and a few weeks ago someone got stabbed in that area for no reason.I waited a while at the house then his mum picked them up from the pub.When they got back his dad started saying that I was immature because I didn't want to sleep at his house,that I had bad skin and basically that I was a useless piece of s**t and that I was on the wrong course at college and I'd never make it.How has he got the right to sit there hurling abuse at me when I never even said anything and its not because he had a drink he always says nasty things to me and behind my back,and my boyf just sits there and lets him say it.I don't know what to do his dad is one of the most horrible people I have met,I don't whether to avoid him because I think it will make it worse for when we have to go to family do's.Has anyone got any advice?
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (6 October 2007):
Your bf will turn out just like his dad. Run away from him as fast as you can and find a better bf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): Hi Hun,
I dont think your b/fs dad is the only plonka here love Im sorry but im honest, Your b/f doesnt seem very kind to you either.
Why does he let his father speak to you this way and to be quite honest hunny he sounds very imature for a parent.
I wouldnt want to go there at all no matter what, I understand you love your b/f but to be put in a situation where the family are very insulting isnt very comfortable and he is just a rude arse****.
Dont let him get to you and my advise is stay away from the man. If your fella complains then you just have to say your not putting up with the abuse anymore if he cant understand then love your going to have to decide if he is really the one for you, Take care of you love MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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