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writes:im so confused, me and my bf have been together 9months, through out our relationship iv caught him out many times lying, he lied about his job, he didn't tell me he had a daughter until after we slept together (he nos that i wud have never got involved with anyone with a child, personal reasons) and every time i hear something else or see something he convinces me to believe him, he said he was going to work and i heard him and his mate saying they was going to meet 8girls, he convinced me he went to work, he gave me 2stds one of which twice! he said his ex gave it him 1st time then he threw up the antibiotics 12hours later so it didn't work! i feel he manipulates me cus every time we have an argument he says its not working, do you think it'll be better if we split up, you could have anyone you wanted, find someone that makes you happy, thnx for breaking my heart, u ask me to jump n i say how high, once he said he was going to jump of a bridge, he jst keeps threatening me with leaving me. also i found out hes on casual sex sites, he says someones made them up for revenge or w.e n hes apparently phoned the police but im not sure, he was last on it in Feb!! about the time his computer broke! help!! is he playing me??
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reader, Mariela  +, writes (7 April 2009):
 I think you should leave him it doesn't matter how much you love him but girl he is just lying about everything and that is not going to work out. I doesn't matter how many times he tells you he loves you he probabily lies to you as many times as he says i love you.Your life could be much better with out a lier you dont need a man like that you can find something way better than that someone that can love you for who you are with out lies.....I tell you this for personal experiences my ex was a liar too and i broke up and i feel better and i did love him because we were together for almost 4 years....SO GIRL JUST DUMP THAT LOOSER ITS NOT WORTH IT YOUR TIME OR YOUR TEARS....HE IS A LIAR.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): Do i think you should leave him.... well YES most definitively....Do it while you still can because one day you might find yourself living with him or pregnant with his child and then you will feel even more trapped into staying with him....I know a 100 percent that you shouldn't trust him... i PROMISE you that if someone can lie to you once they will do it over and over... because they know that they can get away with it... if a child knows it can play up and get sweets then whats to stop it from doing it all the time. would you rob a bank if you wouldn't get caught?He is definitively being manipulative and playing with your mind.... sounds like he is useing emotinal black mail as well. DON'T fall for it.. he knows egzactly what he's doing to you. nothing will change. I would read up on mentally abusive and emotionally abusive relationships on the internet if i was you. Then sign upto some men advice on the internet (catch him keep him) stuff like that.... then you will get the idea of a real relationship.well i have been their. I'm possibly still their now. I have been in a very long tearm relationship and been treated badly. I put him before myself. I have spent the last couple of years reading about how proper boyfriends are meant to treat you and now i want one of them. You have to put yourself first.I know what it's like. You can see what is happeing right before you eyes and you know it's all bad and wrong but you allow it to happen all the same. It feels like your being hypnotized. It's because your emotionaly attached to him. I bet if you told him this he would twist it around aswell to make it sound like your crazy. One last thing, if someone dosent like you enougth to be with you and they want to go, then they are not worth you. you don't need anyone who dosent need you, their not worth being with. He is just using this to get you worried and keep you in your place. GOOD LUCK
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